1) Don't Hurt Anyone!
" It only takes a few seconds to hurt people you love, and it can take years to heal."
2) Marriage!
" Do not marry a person that you know that you can live with; only some one taht you cannot live without."
3) Remember your wife's birthday!
" The most effective way to remember your wife's birthday is to forget, it once."
4) Beauty!
" Real beauty is not the one that we have pleasure watching, but the one in front of whom we must close our eyes."
5) Trust!
" It take years to build trust, and a few seconds to destroy it."
6) Money!
" Money can buy everything but Happiness."
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Why has Sibu-Durin road taken so long to complete?
SIBU: DAP state chairman Richard Wong Ho Leng wants the gov’t to explain why the Sibu-Durin link road has taken so long to complete.
“ Works commenced three years ago, and today the road is still under construction,” he lamented.
He said the gov’t should explain why the delay and tell the public what is the actual progress of the works.
“ At the same time the gov’t should should instruct the contractor to expedite the works.”
Source: The Borneo Post Sat, March 07,2009
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I’m equally perplexed and concurred with Richard Ho that why no action is being taken by the gov’t as well as the consultants as to the delay? Is it another project undertaken by the rich and the powerful politicians?
Don’t the contractor has an obligation to take steps to demonstrate or give assurances that progress is being made toward a timely completion of the contract or to explain that the reasons fro any prospective delay in completion of the contract are not the responsibility of the contractor.
Is Termination for Default a letter away?
“ Works commenced three years ago, and today the road is still under construction,” he lamented.
He said the gov’t should explain why the delay and tell the public what is the actual progress of the works.
“ At the same time the gov’t should should instruct the contractor to expedite the works.”
Source: The Borneo Post Sat, March 07,2009
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I’m equally perplexed and concurred with Richard Ho that why no action is being taken by the gov’t as well as the consultants as to the delay? Is it another project undertaken by the rich and the powerful politicians?
Don’t the contractor has an obligation to take steps to demonstrate or give assurances that progress is being made toward a timely completion of the contract or to explain that the reasons fro any prospective delay in completion of the contract are not the responsibility of the contractor.
Is Termination for Default a letter away?
Sunday, March 8, 2009
International Women’s Day
Have you always wished there was a day dedicated to you? A day to acknowledge your hard work, your achievements, and a day to celebrate yourself?
Mark this very important day on your calendar, girls. March 8 is International Women's Day, and it is a day to celebrate – YOU!
International Woman's Day has been observed since the early 1900s and March 8 is an occasion marked by women's groups around the world. It opens up the story of ordinary women as makers of history; it is rooted in the centuries-old struggle of women to participate in society on an equal footing with men.
In short, this day is one of global celebration to mark the economic, political and social achievements of women.
Source: The Star
Today’s International Women’s Day coincidently its also my wife’s birthday in accordance to the Chinese calendar. Nevertheless, according to the English calendar; 29/03/09 its again her birthday. I feel like asking her when its her birthday accordance to the ‘Tamil’ calendar! Chinese are complicated people, isn’t it?
Message to you my Dear,
It’s YOUR day; GO Shopping Spree & use your OWN credit card, yoga lesson so that you remain flexible like plastic woman and don’t forget to reward yourself with your favourite dish, cakes etc etc. Go girl, Go, Keep going….
Last but not least, I wish you "Happy International Women's Day!" & Happy Birthday.
Mark this very important day on your calendar, girls. March 8 is International Women's Day, and it is a day to celebrate – YOU!
International Woman's Day has been observed since the early 1900s and March 8 is an occasion marked by women's groups around the world. It opens up the story of ordinary women as makers of history; it is rooted in the centuries-old struggle of women to participate in society on an equal footing with men.
In short, this day is one of global celebration to mark the economic, political and social achievements of women.
Source: The Star
Today’s International Women’s Day coincidently its also my wife’s birthday in accordance to the Chinese calendar. Nevertheless, according to the English calendar; 29/03/09 its again her birthday. I feel like asking her when its her birthday accordance to the ‘Tamil’ calendar! Chinese are complicated people, isn’t it?
Message to you my Dear,
It’s YOUR day; GO Shopping Spree & use your OWN credit card, yoga lesson so that you remain flexible like plastic woman and don’t forget to reward yourself with your favourite dish, cakes etc etc. Go girl, Go, Keep going….
Last but not least, I wish you "Happy International Women's Day!" & Happy Birthday.
Saturday, March 7, 2009
ALL-ENGLAND/ Birmingham 2009: Chong Wei faces fiery Lin Dan in final today
IT was the much anticipated clash the badminton fraternity was waiting for and true to form, World No 1 Lee Chong Wei and Olympic champion Lin Dan of China will do battle to own the All England men's singles crown in Birmingham today.
Chong Wei found his touch with a classy 21-8, 21-13 win over Indonesian rival Taufik Hidayat of Indonesia while Lin Dan received a favour from his compatriot Chen Jin who conceded a walkover due to injury in the semi-finals.
Lin Dan, despite being seeded second, will start as the favourite after having beaten Chong Wei rather easily in their previous two meetings - the Beijing Olympics and China Open finals last year - and will be going all out to repeat the feat.
Chong Wei, on the other hand, must be ready to challenge his mighty rival who is in fiery form this week.
National singles coach Misbun Sidek, in a telephone interview from Birmingham, said Lin Dan holds the advantage in the final.
"It's all in the mind for Chong Wei. Lin Dan is the favourite but I want to see a challenge from Chong Wei this time," said Misbun.
"It is going to be very good match as both Chong Wei and Lin Dan are the top two players in the world and are at their best at the moment.
"The final will be all about tactics and strategies and how well Chong Wei can counter Lin Dan as he did against Taufik (in the semis)."
p/s
All malaysians, give your support to Datuk Lee Chong Wei. This crown is just too important to him. Gook Luck I'm sure all malaysians would glue to their TV screen by 8:30pm tonite.
Chong Wei found his touch with a classy 21-8, 21-13 win over Indonesian rival Taufik Hidayat of Indonesia while Lin Dan received a favour from his compatriot Chen Jin who conceded a walkover due to injury in the semi-finals.
Lin Dan, despite being seeded second, will start as the favourite after having beaten Chong Wei rather easily in their previous two meetings - the Beijing Olympics and China Open finals last year - and will be going all out to repeat the feat.
Chong Wei, on the other hand, must be ready to challenge his mighty rival who is in fiery form this week.
National singles coach Misbun Sidek, in a telephone interview from Birmingham, said Lin Dan holds the advantage in the final.
"It's all in the mind for Chong Wei. Lin Dan is the favourite but I want to see a challenge from Chong Wei this time," said Misbun.
"It is going to be very good match as both Chong Wei and Lin Dan are the top two players in the world and are at their best at the moment.
"The final will be all about tactics and strategies and how well Chong Wei can counter Lin Dan as he did against Taufik (in the semis)."
p/s
All malaysians, give your support to Datuk Lee Chong Wei. This crown is just too important to him. Gook Luck I'm sure all malaysians would glue to their TV screen by 8:30pm tonite.
Dealing With Criticism
Whenever you run into situations in which you are dealing with negative information, there are three appropriate responses. You may choose to use only one, but use three if the situation requires a more thorough response. In the end, there is no substitute for your best judgment. Normal responses- but exactly what not to do – is to get defensive, angry, depressed or seek revenge. To gracefully, tactfully and diplomatically turn the criticism around, you may try these responses.
ASK FOR DETAILS OR SPECIFICS
Ask the person to fully explain the nature of the criticism using open-ended questions such as who, what, when, where, why or how. You don’t want your questions to sound like an interrogation, but you also want to know the breadth and depth of the criticism so that you can address it completely and accurately. There is a tendency for criticisms to become exaggerated in the retelling so it’s important to understand the current version in the critic’s mind.
AGREE WITH THE CRITIC’S RIGHT TO AN OPINION
Mr. Critic is entitled to his thoughts on the matter.
SELF-DISCLOSE
You can add to this respond, if appropriate, by self-disclosing or explaining your situation. For example, unfortunately Mr Critic was unaware of the complex circumstances. Had he known all the details, they would have done what he did. This gives an opportunity for you to explain your procedures, what took place, etc…, to ease the mind of your critic. It’s very important to keep your voice in a calm, “explanatory” tone because there is a fine line between explaining yourself and sounding defensive. It’s all in how you sat it and how you look when delivering your words. Your voice accounts for 38% of the impact of your messages, and how you look ( facial expressions, eye contact, etc.) accounts for 55%. Together, your non-verbal signals impact93% of the message you deliver. Choose your words carefully, but, more importantly, keep your delivery style calm and professionals.
OTHER HINTS
Consider the validity before responding. Choose your respond carefully- the right blend of verbal, vocal and visual control. Respond to what is being said and not what your think is implied. ( Gets the facts.) Realize that criticism of behaviour is not a rejection of you as a person.
Source: The Borneo Post, sat, 07/03/09
ASK FOR DETAILS OR SPECIFICS
Ask the person to fully explain the nature of the criticism using open-ended questions such as who, what, when, where, why or how. You don’t want your questions to sound like an interrogation, but you also want to know the breadth and depth of the criticism so that you can address it completely and accurately. There is a tendency for criticisms to become exaggerated in the retelling so it’s important to understand the current version in the critic’s mind.
AGREE WITH THE CRITIC’S RIGHT TO AN OPINION
Mr. Critic is entitled to his thoughts on the matter.
SELF-DISCLOSE
You can add to this respond, if appropriate, by self-disclosing or explaining your situation. For example, unfortunately Mr Critic was unaware of the complex circumstances. Had he known all the details, they would have done what he did. This gives an opportunity for you to explain your procedures, what took place, etc…, to ease the mind of your critic. It’s very important to keep your voice in a calm, “explanatory” tone because there is a fine line between explaining yourself and sounding defensive. It’s all in how you sat it and how you look when delivering your words. Your voice accounts for 38% of the impact of your messages, and how you look ( facial expressions, eye contact, etc.) accounts for 55%. Together, your non-verbal signals impact93% of the message you deliver. Choose your words carefully, but, more importantly, keep your delivery style calm and professionals.
OTHER HINTS
Consider the validity before responding. Choose your respond carefully- the right blend of verbal, vocal and visual control. Respond to what is being said and not what your think is implied. ( Gets the facts.) Realize that criticism of behaviour is not a rejection of you as a person.
Source: The Borneo Post, sat, 07/03/09
Monday, March 2, 2009
A Good Lawyer
Have a laugh! Great one...lightened up my day.....
One afternoon a wealthy lawyer was riding in his limousine when he saw two men along the roadside eating grass.
Disturbed, he ordered his driver to stop and he got out to investigate. He asked one man 'Why are you eating grass?'
'We don't have any money for food,' the poor man replied. 'We have to eat grass.'
'Well, then, you can come with me to my house and I'll feed you', the lawyer said.
'But sir, I have a wife and two children with me. They are over there, under that tree'.
'Bring them along,' the lawyer replied. Turning to the other poor man he stated, 'You come with us also.'
The second man, in a pitiful voice then said, 'But sir, I also have a wife and SIX children with me!'
'Bring them all, as well,' the lawyer answered.
They all entered the car, which was no easy task, even for a car as large as the limousine was.
Once underway, one of the poor fellows turned to the lawyer and said, 'Sir, you are too kind. Thank you for taking all of us with you.'
The lawyer replied, 'Glad to do it. You'll really love my place; the grass is almost 1 metre high!'
Lesson : Don't trust kind lawyers!!
One afternoon a wealthy lawyer was riding in his limousine when he saw two men along the roadside eating grass.
Disturbed, he ordered his driver to stop and he got out to investigate. He asked one man 'Why are you eating grass?'
'We don't have any money for food,' the poor man replied. 'We have to eat grass.'
'Well, then, you can come with me to my house and I'll feed you', the lawyer said.
'But sir, I have a wife and two children with me. They are over there, under that tree'.
'Bring them along,' the lawyer replied. Turning to the other poor man he stated, 'You come with us also.'
The second man, in a pitiful voice then said, 'But sir, I also have a wife and SIX children with me!'
'Bring them all, as well,' the lawyer answered.
They all entered the car, which was no easy task, even for a car as large as the limousine was.
Once underway, one of the poor fellows turned to the lawyer and said, 'Sir, you are too kind. Thank you for taking all of us with you.'
The lawyer replied, 'Glad to do it. You'll really love my place; the grass is almost 1 metre high!'
Lesson : Don't trust kind lawyers!!
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Famous Quote
`In an economy where the only certainty is uncertainty, the sure source of lasting competitive advantage is knowledge’- Ikujiro Nonaka, leading authority in knowledge mgmt
`Everybody has the opportunity to succeed. If you haven’t accomplished it, it is only because you haven’t worked hard enough.’ – Andrew Carnegie.
`It is better late than never.’ – famous rock group band , Bon Jovi
`Success is going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm’. – Sir Winston Churchill
`Everybody has the opportunity to succeed. If you haven’t accomplished it, it is only because you haven’t worked hard enough.’ – Andrew Carnegie.
`It is better late than never.’ – famous rock group band , Bon Jovi
`Success is going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm’. – Sir Winston Churchill
How Men Change
The Love Word:
After 6 weeks:
I looo-ve you, I love you, I love you! After 6 months: Of course, I love you. After 6 years: GOD, if I didn ' t love you, then why did I marry you?
Back from Work:
After 6 weeks:
Honey, I ' m home! After 6 months: I ' m BACK!! After 6 years: Have you cooked yet? Phone Ringing: After 6 weeks: Baby, somebody wants you on the phone. After 6 months: Here, it ' s for you. After 6 years: ANSWER THE PHONE DAM*T!!
Cooking:
After 6 weeks:
I never knew food could taste so good! After 6 months: What are we having for dinner tonight? After 6 years: DUMPLING AGAIN??
New Dress:
After 6 weeks:
Wow, you look like an angel in that dress. After 6 months: You bought a new dress again? After 6 years: How much did THAT cost me?
TV:
After 6 weeks:
Baby, what would you like us to watch tonight? After 6 months: I like this movie. After 6 years: I ' m going to watch PIRATES play, if you ' re not in the mood, go to bed, I can stay up by myself!
Making Love:
After 6 weeks: Baby, I want you tonight? After 6 months: Lets make another baby, my mother just called!!! After 6 years: Please MOVE over to your side, I ' m suffocating here!!!!
After 6 weeks:
I looo-ve you, I love you, I love you! After 6 months: Of course, I love you. After 6 years: GOD, if I didn ' t love you, then why did I marry you?
Back from Work:
After 6 weeks:
Honey, I ' m home! After 6 months: I ' m BACK!! After 6 years: Have you cooked yet? Phone Ringing: After 6 weeks: Baby, somebody wants you on the phone. After 6 months: Here, it ' s for you. After 6 years: ANSWER THE PHONE DAM*T!!
Cooking:
After 6 weeks:
I never knew food could taste so good! After 6 months: What are we having for dinner tonight? After 6 years: DUMPLING AGAIN??
New Dress:
After 6 weeks:
Wow, you look like an angel in that dress. After 6 months: You bought a new dress again? After 6 years: How much did THAT cost me?
TV:
After 6 weeks:
Baby, what would you like us to watch tonight? After 6 months: I like this movie. After 6 years: I ' m going to watch PIRATES play, if you ' re not in the mood, go to bed, I can stay up by myself!
Making Love:
After 6 weeks: Baby, I want you tonight? After 6 months: Lets make another baby, my mother just called!!! After 6 years: Please MOVE over to your side, I ' m suffocating here!!!!
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